I'm 41 and not baptized, I don't belong to a kingdom hall and don't want to be baptized into their man made rules. My question is how can I become baptized outside of a kingdom hall? By whom? Does it have to be a lake or big body of water? Can a women baptize a person or only males? Also, what happens if someone is aware of what it means to be baptized yet never chooses to make that leap? Is being baptized at a kingdom hall by JW's the only way to be baptized?