This brings to mind a few things I have been thinking about. As I was growing up in the 'truth" and as I got older and I was faced with confronting various injustices not just the things I observed in the world but in my own life and many times from within the Org itself, the one thing that has always stuck with me, and what I continue to find some comfort in even today, is the of the biggest reasons Jehovah has allowed wickedness is because Satan's challenge to Jehovah was directly towards the issue of free will. It was drilled in our heads the whole point of Job's test. Christendom often quotes one of Job's "comforters, 'the Lord, giveth the Lord taketh away." But we understood that it was in fact the challenge Satan was making, and in fact it was NOT Jehovah bringing the calamity on Job but Satan himself, and the reason Jehovah allowed it, was because of Satan's accusation about Job, "But, for a change, stretch out your hand and strike everything he has, and he will surely curse you to your very face.” There it is the accusation, take everything he has, (your family association's) and what will he do, "curse you to your very face.” But what was Jehovah's response? "Then Jehovah said to Satan: “Look! Everything that he has is in your hand."
So who is responsible for disfellowshipping? Did Satan not kill Job's whole family save his wife?
I came to believe and understand however, that what is going on is Jehovah is making way for all of us to choose willing whether we serve him. Key word here "willingly."That in fact is the whole point of the MOTB, which WT has rendered meaningless!
Are we not taught to "hate the sin but not the sinner?" Are we not taught only Jehovah and Jesus are our judges? Who are these men to judge any of us? Well we all know who they think they are, "Have you begun ruling as kings without us? I really wish that you had begun ruling as kings, so that we also might rule with you as kings." And if Paul was NOT talking about the GB then who? Who else could possibly fit that description?
In fact I think there is no better demonstration of what Disfellowshipping, actually accomplishes than "PIMO's. "Physically in Mentally Out." It completely undermines their claim that DF'ing moves a person to repentance. What it really does is create an entire "underground" of people who have "beaten the system" in the sense that rather than face shunning, they simply pretend to still believe. If Jehovah's Holy spirit was at work within the congregations how do those people exist? Do the angles not know they are PIMO's?
It reminds me of what I was learning regarding torture back during the beginning phases of the "war on terror", and how ineffective torture actually was, because the person will say anything to end the torture, and it almost certainly does not end with extracting the truth from the person. Is that not exactly why PIMO's exist? They will say anything to avoid the torture of being shunned by their loved ones and family, but usually ends up with them as "POMO", (physically out mentally out. anyway, because living as a PIMO's is it's own kind of torture?
My nephew told me that when he really became convinced, in his words "that this was not the truth", was when he was DF'd and trying to get reinstated. He told me he WAS repentant!! But the Elders would NOT reinstate him. He needed "more time on his own." Then he told me he no longer wanted to be reinstated, and in fact months later they reached out to him. He told me when he went to meet with the Elders he prayed about it, that if this was "the truth" he would NOT be reinstated because his attitude had now changed. What happened, he was reinstated!!
As Timothy has so succinctly put it, "it is NOT unity it is uniformity!"
I was listening a little bit to a new guy who showed up on Youtube an Ex Elder the other day, and he said his grown son, became an atheists when he was 12, and remained for years as a PIMO. It is no wonder Jesus is going to deal with them so "harshly." Harshly? There is a much better word for it. Justly!!! And by the one who actually can read hearts and actually knows if a person really is repentant.
And while the Gb "wait on Jehovah" this is the result.
‘Master, I knew you to be a demanding man, reaping where you did not sow and gathering where you did not winnow.25 So I grew afraid and went and hid your talent in the ground. Here, you have what is yours.’ 26 In reply his master said to him: ‘Wicked and sluggish slave, you knew, did you, that I reaped where I did not sow and gathered where I did not winnow?27 Well, then, you should have deposited my money with the bankers, and on my coming I would have received it back with interest... 30 And throw the good-for-nothing slave out into the darkness outside. There is where his weeping and the gnashing of his teeth will be.’"