Proverbs 14 v 15
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With my own kids I explained Jehovah's view of celebrating birthdays as best as I could but I also said that our family does other things which many other families do not do. It wasn't very long before all of them realised that none of us ever missed out on anything, in fact, they would tell me that they received and did more of most things due to us living our lives the way we did. One particular thing that opened their eyes to birthday parties more than anything else was whenever they were invited to a friend's birthday party I would always speak to the parent. I'd thank them for the invitation and explain best I could and then I would finish by saying that if ever they organised a party just for a party's sake my kids would love to go. Their reply was always "oh no, I'm only doing a party because it's their birthday, I wouldn't willingly do one for no reason at all! too much like hard work!! So, my kids friends used to come to OUR parties insteadI think you touch on an important point. It’s all very well not to celebrate a birthday if it’s understood why, but impressing such reasoning upon a child has to be done pro-rata with their understanding - at least it is so, if one has an holistic and empathetic insight into the developing mind and reasoning of the child. Most children simply do not understand critical issues of sharing and demonstrative issues of love, especially spiritual love and it’s basis in human relationships.
Spirituality is, without doubt, alive in an infant. Attachment to parents is one such indicator, along with an innate sense of normality in things spiritual. We are not strangers to spirituality - it dwells within us naturally. But social development within the sphere of society is a different ballgame altogether. This is essentially where the breathtaking ignorance in shepherding betrays the very substance of having “love amongst yourselves” that the gb claim to have. The tragic outcomes of CSA within watchtower is signal evidence of that. Balance in values can achieve strength in faith. Upset that balance and one puts a stumbling block in the way of others, especially children.
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