Introducing myself

Deborah

Well-known member
I have been around witnesses for 70 years.
My grandfather married a woman who started studying when I was 4. Every summer my mom would send me to my grandfathers. Oh the stories I can tell, but that is for another time. I was baptized in 1972 still smoking until 1973 when we were told you have 6 months to stop or else .
I started getting the heebie jeebies around 1980 after 1975 came and left. OMG so much happened during that time
It was nuts. At least in congregation I was in. My mother had no interest in witnesses and was broken when I got involved. I was raised by single mom her only child. She was devastated. Of course I married when young we were baptized same day. He left me and truth about 1 year later. So much happened during 70's and 80's. So many marriages were broken, nut stuff was going on in congregations and in bethel it was crazy. I left sometime in 80's. I remember so clearly. I gave my talk and was thinking This is my last talk I am outta here. But came back about 4 years later. Been in since then. However certain things never felt right and low and behold years later, internet and ROBERT KING. I found his site by mistake at work one day. I was looking for Stoops Mfg. they made supplies for witnesses. I hit something have no idea and was directed to Robert's site. I was petrified. But not enough to leave his site. I read and learned so much. Been around ever since. There is so much more to my experiences and 70 plus years. But I thank Jehovah for giving me a sense of humor to deal with life and a sound mind to handle what is happening now. I attend mtgs via zoom when I can handle them. UGH.
Thank you all for your threads and comments. You have no idea how much you all have kept me sane. I am a tad nervous. I have not posted in years and hope I did not send this multiple times.
 

SusanB

Well-known member
I have been around witnesses for 70 years.
My grandfather married a woman who started studying when I was 4. Every summer my mom would send me to my grandfathers. Oh the stories I can tell, but that is for another time. I was baptized in 1972 still smoking until 1973 when we were told you have 6 months to stop or else .
I started getting the heebie jeebies around 1980 after 1975 came and left. OMG so much happened during that time
It was nuts. At least in congregation I was in. My mother had no interest in witnesses and was broken when I got involved. I was raised by single mom her only child. She was devastated. Of course I married when young we were baptized same day. He left me and truth about 1 year later. So much happened during 70's and 80's. So many marriages were broken, nut stuff was going on in congregations and in bethel it was crazy. I left sometime in 80's. I remember so clearly. I gave my talk and was thinking This is my last talk I am outta here. But came back about 4 years later. Been in since then. However certain things never felt right and low and behold years later, internet and ROBERT KING. I found his site by mistake at work one day. I was looking for Stoops Mfg. they made supplies for witnesses. I hit something have no idea and was directed to Robert's site. I was petrified. But not enough to leave his site. I read and learned so much. Been around ever since. There is so much more to my experiences and 70 plus years. But I thank Jehovah for giving me a sense of humor to deal with life and a sound mind to handle what is happening now. I attend mtgs via zoom when I can handle them. UGH.
Thank you all for your threads and comments. You have no idea how much you all have kept me sane. I am a tad nervous. I have not posted in years and hope I did not send this multiple times.
I remember Stoops Mfg too. I guess they shut down in 2017.
 

Medi-tator

Well-known member
I have been around witnesses for 70 years.
My grandfather married a woman who started studying when I was 4. Every summer my mom would send me to my grandfathers. Oh the stories I can tell, but that is for another time. I was baptized in 1972 still smoking until 1973 when we were told you have 6 months to stop or else .
I started getting the heebie jeebies around 1980 after 1975 came and left. OMG so much happened during that time
It was nuts. At least in congregation I was in. My mother had no interest in witnesses and was broken when I got involved. I was raised by single mom her only child. She was devastated. Of course I married when young we were baptized same day. He left me and truth about 1 year later. So much happened during 70's and 80's. So many marriages were broken, nut stuff was going on in congregations and in bethel it was crazy. I left sometime in 80's. I remember so clearly. I gave my talk and was thinking This is my last talk I am outta here. But came back about 4 years later. Been in since then. However certain things never felt right and low and behold years later, internet and ROBERT KING. I found his site by mistake at work one day. I was looking for Stoops Mfg. they made supplies for witnesses. I hit something have no idea and was directed to Robert's site. I was petrified. But not enough to leave his site. I read and learned so much. Been around ever since. There is so much more to my experiences and 70 plus years. But I thank Jehovah for giving me a sense of humor to deal with life and a sound mind to handle what is happening now. I attend mtgs via zoom when I can handle them. UGH.
Thank you all for your threads and comments. You have no idea how much you all have kept me sane. I am a tad nervous. I have not posted in years and hope I did not send this multiple times.
My alarms went off with the first spin on "this generation" in October of 1995. How did you do with that and the subsequent spins? "This generation" was the catalyst leading to my "apostate ways" LOL. The discovery of the other stuff (pedophile and NGO etc) just fell into place like "well that doesn't surprise me".
 

Deborah

Well-known member
I was totally mortified with this lapping info. I remember our c.o. trying to explain it and his face was red and he was rushing through this new info. It made absolutely no sense. I filed it in my mental file cabinet with the ridiculous explanation of un library card. The thing that repulsed me the most was Geoffrey lying while being questioned on child abuse. I shut down. But kept going to meetings etc. Still go via zoom . But I tell you sometimes I have to click off. I just can't handle the doom and gloom talks. Very depressing. That and obey gb etc. But I am HOLDING ON
 

BagdadBill

Well-known member
I have been around witnesses for 70 years.
My grandfather married a woman who started studying when I was 4. Every summer my mom would send me to my grandfathers. Oh the stories I can tell, but that is for another time. I was baptized in 1972 still smoking until 1973 when we were told you have 6 months to stop or else .
I started getting the heebie jeebies around 1980 after 1975 came and left. OMG so much happened during that time
It was nuts. At least in congregation I was in. My mother had no interest in witnesses and was broken when I got involved. I was raised by single mom her only child. She was devastated. Of course I married when young we were baptized same day. He left me and truth about 1 year later. So much happened during 70's and 80's. So many marriages were broken, nut stuff was going on in congregations and in bethel it was crazy. I left sometime in 80's. I remember so clearly. I gave my talk and was thinking This is my last talk I am outta here. But came back about 4 years later. Been in since then. However certain things never felt right and low and behold years later, internet and ROBERT KING. I found his site by mistake at work one day. I was looking for Stoops Mfg. they made supplies for witnesses. I hit something have no idea and was directed to Robert's site. I was petrified. But not enough to leave his site. I read and learned so much. Been around ever since. There is so much more to my experiences and 70 plus years. But I thank Jehovah for giving me a sense of humor to deal with life and a sound mind to handle what is happening now. I attend mtgs via zoom when I can handle them. UGH.
Thank you all for your threads and comments. You have no idea how much you all have kept me sane. I am a tad nervous. I have not posted in years and hope I did not send this multiple times.
Happy to read your post and see you here. When we examine our steps backwards, they don't always make as much sense the second time and yet we see we made it to where we happen to have arrived. I don't much believe in coincidence these days. I do believe in holy spirit though, even if I don't quite understand how and when it works.
 

Niobium

Well-known member
Hi there
Welcome I’m of the same generation as yourself, I guess. Just turned 71 the other day.
I guess we don’t overlap in any way, or do we? I liked what you said about thanking Jehovah for giving you a sense of humor to deal with life.
That’s something we sure need. Look forward to reading your posts and comments
 
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KevinB

Guest
I have been around witnesses for 70 years.
Welcome. The name you chose is interesting. I hope you will post some of your experiences, whether it reflects badly on the WT org or not. I look forward to them.
 

Deborah

Well-known member
Hi Kevin

I have big ole eyes and waaaaay back in my school days excellent hearing. I would always see and hear stuff the kids would wish I did not see and hear. I also blabbed it all over 😂 I was bad. The kids would say oh no here comes EYES. In my school yearbook it says THE EYES HAVE IT under my picture.

HA! today I wear glasses and am deaf in my right ear 😂 that's payback I guess for being so bad.

Stories I have so many
So so many. Maybe one day I will share some more.

Like the time the sister and I went to the door around 1973, and the man we were talking too saw a white pen in her book bag. He said I THOUGHT JW DON'T SMOKE. We both said we don't. He said well then what is that cigarette doing in your bag. She said it is not a cigarette took it out and showed him it was a pen. Can't remember what happened after but I remember him eyeballing her bag.

Had some really fun times and saw lots of negative horrible things that would blow folks away. Too much for public forum. Just tooooo much.

Anyway thanks for your welcome.

Take care.
 
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