Just got into an argument with my husband.

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4JahandChrist

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Asadour said:
day to day grind. He made some really dumb decisions, and he yelled at my dog. it hurt my feelings. He’s just a little pug and there’s no reasons to yell at him. My life is so messed up. I hâte it sometimes.
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Well all your Forum mates love you and so does Jehovah. Hang in there sister. Praying for you and hope things pick up soon. 😊👍

Ps....sending a Pat for the Pug as well. Pull little fella. ☹️
 
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4JahandChrist said:
Well all your Forum mates love you and so does Jehovah. Hang in there sister. Praying for you and hope things pick up soon. 😊👍

Ps....sending a Pat for the Pug as well. Pull little fella. ☹️
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Awww, thank you. You made me smile, that was nice.

It’ll get better- we’re cooped up in this apartment and the weather is nasty. At least it’s raining now and not snowing anymore- u don’t have to shovel rain- did you know that? My husband didn’t. He was complaining about the rain and i said well, go shovel it, and he said: ok, i’ll do it in the morning. ha!
 
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Asadour said:
Awww, thank you. You made me smile, that was nice.

It’ll get better- we’re cooped up in this apartment and the weather is nasty. At least it’s raining now and not snowing anymore- u don’t have to shovel rain- did you know that? My husband didn’t. He was complaining about the rain and i said well, go shovel it, and he said: ok, i’ll do it in the morning. ha!
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I was just out raking up the rain the other morning. Hard job especially when all the leaves get in the way. 🤔
 
BARNABY THE DOG.

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As a rule of thumb, all marriages have such problems. If one’s partner has faults 5. 9. and 4 out of a set of say, ten faults, then giving up and finding another partner is going to leave you with faults 2, 1, and 7 to contend with. We are all cursed with that. Happiness requires one to dig their well accordingly and drink from it. That is the accomplishment of marriage.
 
Paula

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It's not easy been married, ive been seperated 5 years I still miss my husband still I liveive in hope he will come back. I'm deluded. He has a new girlfriend - doesnt live with her says he wants a quiet life. My friends say why would you want someone back that treats you like that. I signed a contract for better for worse.
 
BARNABY THE DOG.

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Paula said:
It's not easy been married, ive been seperated 5 years I still miss my husband still I liveive in hope he will come back. I'm deluded. He has a new girlfriend - doesnt live with her says he wants a quiet life. My friends say why would you want someone back that treats you like that. I signed a contract for better for worse.
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I can only agree. I suffered the same experience as you and lost all four of my children, my home and my position in the congregation…and I was the innocent party too. That was the point of my coming to understand the truth of Jehovah’s word, in that He is more merciful than his people. That sustained me over the following forty years. I had never imagined how heartless and ignorant elders could be until that point in my life . Their ignorance of insight into the flock, their intransigence to listen and understand, their ignorance in all things personal and their unthinking, blind following of watchtower rhetoric was a wonder that past all imagining. Being shunned out of what I believed was Jehovah’s provision brought me to my knees at times, but for some reason, I never forgot Jehovah. I could still ‘see’ Him. The watchtower has no mercy and thrives on control. I’m only sorry that you and so many others have had a similar experience.
 
Paula

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BARNABY THE DOG. said:
I can only agree. I suffered the same experience as you and lost all four of my children, my home and my position in the congregation…and I was the innocent party too. That was the point of my coming to understand the truth of Jehovah’s word, in that He is more merciful than his people. That sustained me over the following forty years. I had never imagined how heartless and ignorant elders could be until that point in my life . Their ignorance of insight into the flock, their intransigence to listen and understand, their ignorance in all things personal and their unthinking, blind following of watchtower rhetoric was a wonder that past all imagining. Being shunned out of what I believed was Jehovah’s provision brought me to my knees at times, but for some reason, I never forgot Jehovah. I could still ‘see’ Him. The watchtower has no mercy and thrives on control. I’m only sorry that you and so many others have had a similar experience.
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BARNABY THE DOG. said:
I can only agree. I suffered the same experience as you and lost all four of my children, my home and my position in the congregation…and I was the innocent party too. That was the point of my coming to understand the truth of Jehovah’s word, in that He is more merciful than his people. That sustained me over the following forty years. I had never imagined how heartless and ignorant elders could be until that point in my life . Their ignorance of insight into the flock, their intransigence to listen and understand, their ignorance in all things personal and their unthinking, blind following of watchtower rhetoric was a wonder that past all imagining. Being shunned out of what I believed was Jehovah’s provision brought me to my knees at times, but for some reason, I never forgot Jehovah. I could still ‘see’ Him. The watchtower has no mercy and thrives on control. I’m only sorry that you and so many others have had a similar experience.
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I very much feel for you. The pain must be unmeasurable. Sometimes with our husband/wife, you think how could it come to this, the hate that is between us. I didn't marry in the truth, so called, but I think similar things go on in families. I think culturally, our own attitudes, hormones, inlaws that interfere, family dynamics. Last of all as Jesus said , we have to forgive and we seem to be unable to do that as a society . The hate seem to crush the forgiveness. My daughter I haven't seen for 4 years. I'm hoping ingetting to know Jehovah and Jesus in the last 3 years may dampen my selfishness. I'm hoping to meet up with her again ,shes 19 now. I miss her terribly.
 
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