Please don’t let this get out of hand. It’s not worth all the negative feelings it can create. None of us can answer perfectly what another one might say. That’s the unique thing about this forum. We can all share different ideas and let them bounce off each other then learn something new.
In my opinion, I think my sister, Driven gave some good suggestions as to how y’all can approach this. It’s always nice to learn about what’s on their mind and what they’re interested in. That way you get to know them and how to relate to them also. If they don’t want to respond right then, let it go and take a different approach.
“Let your words always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should answer each person.“ (Colossians 4:6)
By the way, welcome to the forum. Do stick around and get to know us.