Melinda Riling
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I wanted to share an experience I had over the weekend. Robert said "If you are inclined, please share a link to the recently posted article on e-watchman with your social media contacts - Bulletin 27. I was inclined to do so. I flooded many XW FB and youtube sites. I also sent the bulletin to the brother who studied with me 45 years ago. Here is a little history about this brother. I was 19 when I met this brother and his wife. He was about 35 yrs old and elder and pioneer. My husband and I had moved to a new town after studying for 3 months prior. This brother contacted us about continuing our study....our first study was at his house. When we showed up the brother and his wife were finishing up a study with a different couple....so we waited.....after our study was finished there was another couple that was waiting on us to finish. I really thought that people were waiting in line to learn the truth. I think everyone knows certain Elders who stick out in the circuit or district for their ability to speak and teach, this brother would have been one of those. To this day I don't know think I have heard a speaker religious or otherwise that could hold an audience attention the way this brother did. Besides his gift of public speaking and being a great teacher he was very humble, meek and kind. By being my teacher he always held a special place. He served Jehovah for over 35 years as an Elder, pioneer, Circuit Overseer, Bethelite and missionary. In the early 2000's he moved to California and soon was disfellowshipped. After I found Robert 3 years ago I reached out to him. I felt the conversation was positive but he was skeptical of things I shared with him. For the last couple years I would send him articles, videos from Robert at least once or twice a month. He never replies but I still send them any way. Until this weekend he responded with the following
I’m trying to find where WT said there will be no World War III. Or there will not be use of nuclear weapons. I know the WT said God will not let them destroy the earth that way, but that’s not saying that nukes won’t be used, and not saying there won’t be another world war. I’ve read in WT: “even if man were to use nuclear weapons again, God would not allow the situation to escalate to the point of global annihilation”.
I wrote back and sent him the link to the reasoning book called "How do you know that some future generation won't fit the prophecy even better than this one" I didn't really know where he was going with this question because I always believed there could not be another WW3 in fact he himself had taught that concept to me. I don't think I knew any JW that didn't believe that there would be no World War lll either. He wrote back the following
But e-watchman has many times said that WT claims there would be no WW III and no nuclear war. I think that’s false. I can’t find where WT said what he claims they said. But the point is that WT didn’t say it and E-watchman uses this as a proof of false prophesying
He obviously wanted to see it in black and white where WT said those exact words there "will be no WWlll". Reasoning from the reasoning book wasn't enough. After 50 text back and forth I felt like I was reasoning with WT about 1975 when they said we never said 1975 would be the end. I finally realized where he was going with his argument when he wrote the following:
Don't you see a pattern with you? JW's Trump and now Robert! I'm trying to tell you that I think you're susceptible to conspiracy theories. I tried today to point out just one thing that Robert lied about and you went all over the place to get around it. You did Melinda! We are never going to agree on this stuff. Just know that I love you and I always have.
I waited 3 days and wrote the following back:
I have given this statement a lot of thought these last couple days. When you said basically I have traded one idol to follow another. First JW then Trump now Robert. Since I was a child I have always had a need or a thirst to make since of life. When 1 +1 doesn’t equal 2 I will not let it go till it does and I will get to the bottom of why it doesn’t. I was 19 when I found My first LOVE it was like a diamond to me…it was the basic Truths from JW’s. JW’s teach you the basics Truths FIRST as a carrot… then by subtle design you no longer think for yourself and use critical thinking for that is not allowed… then men are set up to be masters over your faith… over time it felt as though the light was fading and my faith had turned to a burden, a heavy and impossible load to carry - a duty.
Jesus said “My load is light” yet it became a ball and chain around my neck. Because of my following men my faith became a shipwreck. The next 20 years I danced with the beast of Revelation… always running away from my first LOVE. When the Plandemic came upon the whole world and 1 +1 did not =2. I became like a pit bull. I had to make "life make since". It was the flea to the mountain moment for me. I went back to my first LOVE For the past 3 years I understand the importance of Faith in Jehovah NOT in an organization. The load is indeed light and I can for the first time in many many years I can “ Sleep on a stormy night"
I will continue to send him articles as I know he must be reading them....
I’m trying to find where WT said there will be no World War III. Or there will not be use of nuclear weapons. I know the WT said God will not let them destroy the earth that way, but that’s not saying that nukes won’t be used, and not saying there won’t be another world war. I’ve read in WT: “even if man were to use nuclear weapons again, God would not allow the situation to escalate to the point of global annihilation”.
I wrote back and sent him the link to the reasoning book called "How do you know that some future generation won't fit the prophecy even better than this one" I didn't really know where he was going with this question because I always believed there could not be another WW3 in fact he himself had taught that concept to me. I don't think I knew any JW that didn't believe that there would be no World War lll either. He wrote back the following
But e-watchman has many times said that WT claims there would be no WW III and no nuclear war. I think that’s false. I can’t find where WT said what he claims they said. But the point is that WT didn’t say it and E-watchman uses this as a proof of false prophesying
He obviously wanted to see it in black and white where WT said those exact words there "will be no WWlll". Reasoning from the reasoning book wasn't enough. After 50 text back and forth I felt like I was reasoning with WT about 1975 when they said we never said 1975 would be the end. I finally realized where he was going with his argument when he wrote the following:
Don't you see a pattern with you? JW's Trump and now Robert! I'm trying to tell you that I think you're susceptible to conspiracy theories. I tried today to point out just one thing that Robert lied about and you went all over the place to get around it. You did Melinda! We are never going to agree on this stuff. Just know that I love you and I always have.
I waited 3 days and wrote the following back:
I have given this statement a lot of thought these last couple days. When you said basically I have traded one idol to follow another. First JW then Trump now Robert. Since I was a child I have always had a need or a thirst to make since of life. When 1 +1 doesn’t equal 2 I will not let it go till it does and I will get to the bottom of why it doesn’t. I was 19 when I found My first LOVE it was like a diamond to me…it was the basic Truths from JW’s. JW’s teach you the basics Truths FIRST as a carrot… then by subtle design you no longer think for yourself and use critical thinking for that is not allowed… then men are set up to be masters over your faith… over time it felt as though the light was fading and my faith had turned to a burden, a heavy and impossible load to carry - a duty.
Jesus said “My load is light” yet it became a ball and chain around my neck. Because of my following men my faith became a shipwreck. The next 20 years I danced with the beast of Revelation… always running away from my first LOVE. When the Plandemic came upon the whole world and 1 +1 did not =2. I became like a pit bull. I had to make "life make since". It was the flea to the mountain moment for me. I went back to my first LOVE For the past 3 years I understand the importance of Faith in Jehovah NOT in an organization. The load is indeed light and I can for the first time in many many years I can “ Sleep on a stormy night"
I will continue to send him articles as I know he must be reading them....