What I want to know is, why do Governing Body members have the insatiable need to be married and to be with a Woman, IF there hope is soon to be in heaven. Think about it for a second. They profess to one day be in position "before the face of God". In His presence, his dwelling. Seriously, can you imagine anything more exquisite, perfect, fulfilling, divine then to actually be in the presence....literally at His feet, the Holy Father, Creator of every imaginable, tangible thing. Youd think, that each GB who claims to be riddled with holy spirit to such an extent that their calling is so undeniable by the Father, that all they'd care about is to, "get to Him". The thought gives me goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach. Yet, ones like Geoffrey Jackson need to run off and marry an islander woman much less his age. For what? To caresses and satisfy his aged bones? Makes me sick frankly. Especially when I read poor blokes like yourself (and me), frustrated at not having "The Feminine" to hold each night. The apostle Paul, in order to have been part of the Sanhedrin as Saul, had to be married to qualify. Therefore, at some point Paul experienced all that said bliss and female accompaniment. However, as Paul when he received his flash of light Damascus moment, everything obviously changed. As regards marriage, etc... he'd most likely done that. NOW, he had just seen Jesus. So upward and onward to better more divine things. Thus why he could personally recommend staying single. So if you blokes don't profess to one day literally see God, get over it and go find your companion. There's nothing selfish about it. It is what God intended and purposed. And should you choose to wait till Paradise, well He through Jesus will mandate that eventually every human be married at some point. It is the natural way and purpose of a human.