The Loneliness Epidemic

I do not believe that for one minute Barney 😋 anyway, I can "trump" that.. I didn't get any "o levels" at all, I was needed at home to do housework 🙄 so, that's why I was never a "somebody" (until I found Jehovah) and I could never get what one calls a "proper" job (until I joined the RBC team installing air-conditioning) Just cleaning, cleaning and more cleaning. Still, it meant I was never, ever out of work 😂
“ Patience is a virtue, get it while you can, always in a woman, never in a man! “
 
More hints regarding the divide between men and women.

When I first learned that about all the various social engineering "experiments" that have been, and still are, being performed on us it made me so angry that I couldn't even enjoy listening to my favourite music anymore, or my favourite films, it took me a couple of years of accepting this knowledge to get me back on track again. Even so, once my eyes had been opened to it all, I can never unsee and the damage has been done, fortunately, there's more important things going on than just entertainment, AND there's an even more important "experiment" going on, it started in the Garden of Eden, knowing about that experiment helps to understand everything else. Unfortunately, the garden of Eden has been promulgated as a ridiculous fairytale, so not many people get to learn about it..
 
When I first learned that about all the various social engineering "experiments" that have been, and still are, being performed on us it made me so angry that I couldn't even enjoy listening to my favourite music anymore, or my favourite films, it took me a couple of years of accepting this knowledge to get me back on track again. Even so, once my eyes had been opened to it all, I can never unsee and the damage has been done, fortunately, there's more important things going on than just entertainment, AND there's an even more important "experiment" going on, it started in the Garden of Eden, knowing about that experiment helps to understand everything else. Unfortunately, the garden of Eden has been promulgated as a ridiculous fairytale, so not many people get to learn about it..

It's ironic that they think the garden of Eden is a silly thing, while those same people believe men can be women, women can be men, and that sterilizing children is a moral obligation.
 
It's ironic that they think the garden of Eden is a silly thing, while those same people believe men can be women, women can be men, and that sterilizing children is a moral obligation.
Well, if we crawled up out of the "primeval soup" when we were just blobs of cells JR then I suppose those people are just continuing the evolutionary process 🙄
 
We've all felt this unease lately. It is remarkable how far society has fallen, and nowhere is it more obvious than in how people treat each other.

Everybody has a camp now, and every camp is aimed at another. Men have the manosphere, women have feminism. Trans against cisgender, straight against gay, one race set against another. Pick any line you want and someone has already drawn it. Underneath all of it is a broken mechanism for human relationships. The wiring that is supposed to connect us has been cut.

When I read 2 Timothy 3:1-5, it doesn't feel like a far off prophecy. It feels like the news. Lovers of themselves, without natural affection, not open to any agreement, fierce. That isn't a prediction anymore. It's a description of the timeline we are standing on.
I've dealt with loneliness.

Most of you can probably relate in one way or another. And I think that is part of what this world manufactures now. It isolates people and then hands them an enemy to blame for the emptiness.
Last night I watched a horror movie called Obsession. I won't turn this into a review and I'm not trying to force a parallel out of it, but it got under my skin. If you know the Monkey's Paw trope, you know the shape of it. You get your wish and it arrives wrapped in consequences you never saw coming.
I went in expecting a crazy demon girl. That's not what it was. The girl, Nikki, is innocent. The real villain wasn't some possessed girl at all. It was the cowardice of a lonely young man who was willing to ruin an innocent person's life rather than face his own fear.

That's the part I keep chewing on. We treat cowardice like a soft failing. Weak, but harmless. Scripture doesn't. Revelation 21:8 lists the cowardly first, right alongside murderers and liars. That struck me as strange until I sat with it. When a person is too afraid to do what is right, someone else usually pays for it. Fear that goes unchecked doesn't stay fear. It curdles, and it goes looking for a victim.

I think that is what we are watching on a mass scale. A frightened, self-focused world, everyone too cowardly to love honestly, and plenty of innocent people paying for it.

But the wiring isn't damaged beyond repair. The answer to all this loneliness was never going to be another movement or another camp. 1 John 4:18 says perfect love throws fear outside. That is the one thing this system cannot manufacture, and it is the exact thing we are actually told to build.
you have described the world and i am learning to due without it! yes its lonely but i fill that loneliness with Jehovah's promise of this wicked worlds destruction! we know it is coming Jesus said it and we are now seeing holy prophecy unfold before our eyes we need to hold on to faith and wait on Jehovah.


1 John 5:19

We know that we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one.

Ephesians 6:12

because we have a struggle, not against blood and flesh, but against the governments, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the wicked spirit forces in the heavenly places.

John 15:18

If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you.

John 7:7

The world has no reason to hate you, but it hates me, because I bear witness about it that its works are wicked.

John 17:14

I have given your word to them, but the world has hated them, because they are no part of the world, just as I am no part of the world.

Psalm 94:3

How long will the wicked, O Jehovah, How long will the wicked continue to exult?

Psalm 130:6

I eagerly wait for Jehovah, More than watchmen wait for the morning, Yes, more than watchmen wait for the morning.

Psalm 31:24

Be courageous, and may your heart be strong, All you who are waiting for Jehovah.
 
Sometimes I wish I had a time machine. Also, very strange how the railroad seems to follow me, even into my dreams. Obviously, the railroad is older than the video, but still funny. We sure have lost a lot since then.

 
So strange story. I kind of have a date tomorrow night. She is younger than me. She's 32 I think. So about 10 years younger. She also has two kids. But things are happening kinda fast. So yeah. Ironic ain't it? She's coming over tomorrow for a movie night. Trying to think of a good one. I got kind of nervous, so I tried to sabotage myself again by telling her I was Jehovah's Witness, and she didn't care. That's usually enough to scare them off. This time it didn't work.
 
So strange story. I kind of have a date tomorrow night. She is younger than me. She's 32 I think. So about 10 years younger. She also has two kids. But things are happening kinda fast. So yeah. Ironic ain't it? She's coming over tomorrow for a movie night. Trying to think of a good one. I got kind of nervous, so I tried to sabotage myself again by telling her I was Jehovah's Witness, and she didn't care. That's usually enough to scare them off. This time it didn't work.
A bit of advice. Witness about yourself. You are the outcome. She’s not coming over for a bible lesson. Being a fisher of men takes a lot of patience.
 
A bit of advice. Witness about yourself. You are the outcome. She’s not coming over for a bible lesson. Being a fisher of men takes a lot of patience.
It is happening pretty fast. I'm not gonna lie. Part of me really wants it to work. But I'm sure she will meet me tomorrow, and she'll be super disappointed somehow. Nothing will happen. She'll run away screaming. Then I'll just go back to my regular life. No harm. No foul. I'm admittedly a little freaked out. I'm not a daddy figure. I don't know how to be a step dad. I don't even know if I'd be a good dad or not.
 
It is happening pretty fast. I'm not gonna lie. Part of me really wants it to work. But I'm sure she will meet me tomorrow, and she'll be super disappointed somehow. Nothing will happen. She'll run away screaming. Then I'll just go back to my regular life. No harm. No foul. I'm admittedly a little freaked out. I'm not a daddy figure. I don't know how to be a step dad. I don't even know if I'd be a good dad or not.
Oh come on Josh, ya can't be that bad.
If you have a negative attitude you will have a negative outcome. "As a man thinkith in his heart, so is he." Relax and just be you. Don't go for romantic right away, go for friends, get to know each other.
 
It is happening pretty fast. I'm not gonna lie. Part of me really wants it to work. But I'm sure she will meet me tomorrow, and she'll be super disappointed somehow. Nothing will happen. She'll run away screaming. Then I'll just go back to my regular life. No harm. No foul. I'm admittedly a little freaked out. I'm not a daddy figure. I don't know how to be a step dad. I don't even know if I'd be a good dad or not.

Proverbs 21:19

Better to dwell in the wilderness Than with a quarrelsome and irritable wife.

1 Corinthians 7:8

Now I say to those who are unmarried and to the widows that it is better for them if they remain as I am.
 
I hope she knows what’s about to happen! A woman can do more damage than Satan and if you don’t believe me go read the account of Sampson. Lead her to baptism before you ever make a commitment.
 
It is happening pretty fast. I'm not gonna lie. Part of me really wants it to work. But I'm sure she will meet me tomorrow, and she'll be super disappointed somehow. Nothing will happen. She'll run away screaming. Then I'll just go back to my regular life. No harm. No foul. I'm admittedly a little freaked out. I'm not a daddy figure. I don't know how to be a step dad. I don't even know if I'd be a good dad or not.
Be yourself. Appeal to the heart. She should have insight seeing as she has loved and lost already, and have a more realistic insight into life.
 
Thanks everyone. I love you guys. Hopefully I can be a positive influence on her life. If it doesn't work out, oh well. I've been single for many years. I can always go back to my normal life. I don't know if any of you guys have dived into modern dating lately, but it's an absolute mess.

And it's a weird situation because if I were to find a JW girl, then that doesn't necessarily guarantee a successful relationship either. I'm sure many people here can attest to that. Meeting somebody on the outside has problems. Meeting somebody on the inside has problems. It's almost like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Thanks though everyone.
 
Thanks everyone. I love you guys. Hopefully I can be a positive influence on her life. If it doesn't work out, oh well. I've been single for many years. I can always go back to my normal life. I don't know if any of you guys have dived into modern dating lately, but it's an absolute mess.

And it's a weird situation because if I were to find a JW girl, then that doesn't necessarily guarantee a successful relationship either. I'm sure many people here can attest to that. Meeting somebody on the outside has problems. Meeting somebody on the inside has problems. It's almost like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Thanks though everyone.
I married a non witness 14yrs ago. Honestly, he knocks spots off of most so called witnesses, it's almost as if Jehovah's standards and values are just instilled into him, and he doesn't falter or go back on them for anything or anyone, including me, he keeps me right on track. Weird how everything turned out for me. So don't give up hope on her JR 😍
 
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Just pray over it and ask Jehovah to guide the both of you. But protect your spirituality above all! We’re walking or should I say we’re in some dark times. You’re soon to be faced with taking the mark for survival. She needs to understand that you have to stand up for what’s right and put Jehovah first. Make sure she knows what you’re faith requires of you so you are both in agreement.
 
I would strongly caution against raising someone else's kids unless you are ready to die for this woman. Sorry, I've just seen too much.
IMHO, when it comes to single moms, they should date single dads. Bringing in someone who has no experience raising children will make things difficult.
 
IMHO, when it comes to single moms, they should date single dads. Bringing in someone who has no experience raising children will make things difficult.

Single moms don't really have a lot of options. My real dad wasn't my biological dad. It's challenging for sure, and it would be better to find a mate with experience, but let's be real. It's hard enough for two single people with no children to find a mate, let alone if you already have kids.

Oh and by the way, just an update. She did come over. She is very self conscious about her weight. So she has a lot of emotional issues. I won't go into details. But I really do like her a lot, and she seems to like me too. Personally, I think she is gorgeous. She's just been hurt a lot. As a result, she has a lot of barriers. But then so so do I. We're both imperfect, yet accept each other. Maybe it won't work out. Maybe it will. Regardless we're kind of a thing now.
 
I hope she knows what’s about to happen! A woman can do more damage than Satan and if you don’t believe me go read the account of Sampson. Lead her to baptism before you ever make a commitment.


 
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