Jess, you are justified for feeling downhearted over this. It is lunacy. I am seeing so many inconsistencies it makes my head spin. What I'm wondering with this situation is ... are these people going to the in-person meetings, and if so, why the insistence on remaining contactless? Are they not sitting directly next to one another, brushing shoulders etc? Is it because you are not juiced-up she feels you should distance yourself? Just curious because there are so many strange concepts floating around here too.
I haven't been back to in-person meetings but my husband and daughter go, and they say everyone is masked. Last weekend we were pressed by Field Service Group Overseer to join the entire group for hospitality (feeding the speaker after meeting) at his home. That would mean about 20-25 people if everyone showed up. He assured us, don't worry you don't have to wear a mask, nobody will be wearing masks. Fine, but why is it such a big deal at meetings and then 10 minutes later it's irrelevant? (We didn't attend, btw.)
My family is unjabbed, and probably everyone is aware, but this apparently didn't matter to our FSG overseer. And I've noticed in our city most stores & restaurants are basically returning to "normal" and hardly anyone wears masks.