@Nomex
I totally agree with you on this believe it or not. You probably know from experience that women tend to be a bit more emotional. Add to that, like you said, we’ve been through so much in the last two and a half years. Not to mention, having lost my husband and being alone adds to all of this. Added to that I’ve been in extreme pain this past week which aggravates this situation even more.
I’m not trying to solicit any sympathy here but I am also feeling very sad for so many on here that have lost loved ones. Just recently a new member on this forum lost his wife. He made a thread explaining what had happened and it really hit home for me when I read it.
Yes it is important that we all realize we are all on the same side. But at the same time try to understand other peoples feelings and don’t just write them off and put a label on them because they got a little emotional but I digress. And yes, I can be forgiving. I find that being forgiving is easier than having resentment and being unforgiving.
I really don’t have anything against anyone on this forum. I love all of you. But if I come across to others as being hostile it’s probably because I’m either trying to make my point, and I guess I’m not very good at it sometimes. So what I usually will have to do is step back and regroup. That’s when I find that whatever it was that got me so upset wasn’t as big of a deal. I hope that I’m making some sense here.
But seriously, I do apologize for coming across to anyone in such a negative way and will remember to think before posting.
Like you said, we need to “continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely.”