I have always thought that birthdays were an opportunity to show a bit of appreciation and reward to children. It gives something to work for and yes, does make the recipient a bit special. I like to feel appreciated too. Does anyone here not like to feel appreciated? I have never been able to reconcile watchtowers claim that to give someone a present of love and appreciation is idolatrous. We give such gifts every day with appreciating a meal and thanking the cook. For everyone seated at the table expressing thanks and appreciation for preparation is done everyday and does not make the chef idolised. Again, watchtower has never come up with a clear explanation as to why celebrating anniversaries is ok but birthdays no! They are both special to the recipient. Idolising someone is not a problem of numeracy . It can be achieved one on one, - or in birthdays, when many celebrate the one - which was their lame excuse about birthdays. And what then, of the many rejoicing with the bride and groom at a wedding!? I regret not celebrating my children’s birth and depriving them of attention that was much needed in their mind. Do we really idolise people by buying them a gift on the day they were born? The bible is clear on issues of intent - ”the man committing adultery in his heart.” is as guilty as if he had. Birthdays are about love and appreciation - two things you cannot give when you are dead! Watchtower is about control. It has neither love or appreciation for its sheep. It accepts readily the welcome displays of idolatrous crowds when they arrive at airports and when soliciting donations (which it denies it ever asks for) and it has no love for anyone, only a use as a cash cow. And, they use scripture to support their needs. If that is not idolatry of self, then tell me what is. Happy birthday everyone!