Birthdays. Biblical proof they should be celebrated.
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Ms_ladyblue
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Nomex, I think most of us here understand your reaction by the thoughts they shared. I mean, I believe that we all have at one time or another over reacted because we were wronged in some way then we regretted how we acted later. It’s called being imperfect. I know I have many times in my life, to some degree.
And considering what Watchtower has done to so many of us it’s no wonder we’re all not in an insane asylum.
I feel so bitter at times when I think of it and if I start to talk about it I get upset, I get loud and I cry!
But I really believe Jehovah sees our pain and is helping all of us to get through this difficult time. We might get banged up and feel like we’re falling apart along the way but in the end Jehovah gives us comfort.
Just think about the fact that we have this forum to come to for spiritual food and support from others who are going through the same trial or trials.
Keep your chin up Nomex…you’re a good person and you’re humble. And Jehovah loves you for that.
Just don’t allow the “real apostates“ to break your spirit.
J
Jehovahsloyalchild
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We are happy you are here...we have all lost our temper not one if us is perfect at least not yet 🙂...its great to hear you are feeling better ❤🙏
Nomex
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I finally am getting around to reading the rest of this thread. I have done so reluctantly, because I have a bitter pill to swallow, but I will and am "facing the music." I want to address anyone who called me out. You are completely right. I did something I would not condone had someone else done it. Maybe I needed this, so I won't do this again!
Hi Nomex,
I just wanted to say it takes humility to step back and look at ourselves, see an area of imperfection, own it and apologize.
I didn't say anything earlier on after reading your comments cuz I am a new poster and have not established a rapport with all here. So I kept my mouth shut.
But I have been reading on this forum for awhile before joining and got a sense of whose who. I never remember seeing these type of comments from you.
My initial reaction was this man is upset with something else. It seemed out of character.
I had a feeling that you would come back and apologize later.
Several years ago I was so angry 😡 at something I slammed the front door so hard it bounced back and made a hole in my living room wall. I did not get it fixed. It is still like that behind the door. A reminder to not let it happen again.
Like yourself there are things some of us won't address on forums for personal reasons.
But I was beginning to feel some kinda way and knew I better find some way to express myself or else my living room walls might be full of holes!!!
I knew I was not able to talk openly to any witnesses around here and I listen to meetings via the phone not on the zoom camera part. I just cannot handle the pseudo conversations from the friends. No one can be real for fear of backlash.
So I had to find a way to redirect the feelings festering up inside me. I was not paying a therapist !!!!. Anyway I am happy you feel better and pray you find ways to address what is making you sad inside.
One last comment regarding suicide. Years ago in my young single days I rented a room from a sister. She was 10 years older than me. she professed to be of the anointed I found out at the memorial shortly after moving in, and she did act different. She had told me her husband, a brother, left her for a younger woman.
She really never got over that. There was also problems for her at kh.
I later moved out later cuz too much drama. Several months later she committed suicide. I never forgot her. Her situation still pops up in my thoughts to this day.
I worked at a mental health center and one day found her file accidentally while pulling another file for one of the mental health workers. I was floored. Some really sad stuff in that file.
Again Nomex glad you are feeling better sorry for all you are coping with. So many facing situations and suffering in silence.
Hugs and prayers for you and yours Nomex you have a good heart.
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PJ54
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It's depressing how it has come to such a situation where expressing something that is haunting can lead to unnecessary problems. There's a brother & son I talk to who has been having such issues (especially since COVID). They're glad they could speak to me since the Org has changed so much to the point it's like there's no genuine relationships around anymore. It's really as if the "love of the greater number" has cooled off.
SollaSollew
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Hope Soul Sage got an apology?
BARNABY THE DOG.
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It is strange how two differing perspectives on the same subject can justify opposite outcomes correctly. It proves rather conclusively why heart motivation in a spiritual topic is often more important than the subject discussed. The only way out of this matter to to take a leaf out of the American Indian’s tradition of giving gifts but retaining ownership - known in this day as being an Indian giver” when a gift is asked to be returned. It would save a lot of money and I would be certain that it would be “watchtower approved” given that they would gladly take a child’s pocket money and call it a Christian act.
Prodigal One
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All’s well that ends well. We’ve all had moments where we wish the clock could turn back. It’s a long journey - that’s why Jehovah has given us a thousand years.
BARNABY THE DOG.
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I was being sarcastic. One of my many faults.
So glad you're back. The forum wouldn't be the same without you. You liven up the threads 🤣. And no you are not a jerk! You're human! And we all love ya.
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Again, Jesus' anointing was a one-time deal. Jehovah introduced Christ to John the Baptizer who introduced him to the world. There is no need for God to keep making the same announcement over and over.
Revvzone
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True..only, each time Christ was elevated to a superior position, it was announced by the Almighty accompanied with honors..
Nomex
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Of course. That was my first reply to this thread since I started it! It's on page 3 I think!
The Black Sheep
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What are your thoughts on being present at holiday gatherings with family? I’ve never had to experience that before but I’m just curious how some of you have handled situations like that, as it may be the only time you get to see family.
Patricia
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If it's just for a family meal, I have never had a problem because the family knows what I believe. They know that if they don't want to hear a whole loooong spiel about why we shouldn't celebrate this or that then, they should just not bring it up. Treat it like any other day or I'll expose your pagan holiday. 😁
Now if they were going to do really holiday stuff like decorating the tree or an Easter egg hunt I would try to arrange to visit at a different time.
My family is pretty laid back really. I think they don't bother inviting me to stuff that I wouldn't do cause I'd just spoil their fun.
Hehehehe
First, talk to Jehovah about it.
Then, have a calm, frank talk beforehand with the host/hostess about your concerns. Then see how it goes. If everything goes well and your conscience isn't bothered, good, have a nice family visit. If, on the other hand, things go on that you aren't comfortable with, leave early or don't repeat it next year.
You never know, you might be able to give a witness.😉 Refresh your memory about the pagan origins of the holiday/customs and a scripture or 2 that convinced you not to celebrate it before you talk to anyone. Hopefully, it won't be a big deal for your family. 🙏
Now if they were going to do really holiday stuff like decorating the tree or an Easter egg hunt I would try to arrange to visit at a different time.
My family is pretty laid back really. I think they don't bother inviting me to stuff that I wouldn't do cause I'd just spoil their fun.
Hehehehe
First, talk to Jehovah about it.
Then, have a calm, frank talk beforehand with the host/hostess about your concerns. Then see how it goes. If everything goes well and your conscience isn't bothered, good, have a nice family visit. If, on the other hand, things go on that you aren't comfortable with, leave early or don't repeat it next year.
You never know, you might be able to give a witness.😉 Refresh your memory about the pagan origins of the holiday/customs and a scripture or 2 that convinced you not to celebrate it before you talk to anyone. Hopefully, it won't be a big deal for your family. 🙏
The Black Sheep
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Yeah that makes a lot of sense. I could imagine how complicated things could get for some brothers and sisters with an unbelieving spouse.