Sounds as if you're having a tough go of it, Ms_ladyblue, but, no doubt about it, you're holding your own. Jerry just read Watchman's comment about changing your name to Lady Firecat and gave a thumbs up. He thinks you are extremely courageous. BTW, Jerry and I both thought the things you communicated to the elders in your texts were excellent. However, we're concerned that their ultimate goal in meeting with you is to establish grounds for a judicial hearing with the goal of disfellowshipping. With that said, if you are prepared for that outcome, we understand your need to expose them for what they are as well as the WT/GB. It also gives you the opportunity for you to take a stand for truth. But, ultimately, you are the only one that can make that decision. It appears your resolve is to not meet with them in person and that seems to be a wise decision. (Phyllis)