This is simply my current personal leanings on this matter based on my knowledge of scripture. If I need correction or perspective please feel free to chime in.
The scripture that always comes to mind when I'm contemplating the dilemma mentioned is Matt 23: 3 where Jesus is giving direction to the disciples regarding the hypocrites (Scribes and Pharisees) and how they should deal with them. He states the following: "Therefore, all the things they tell you, do and observe, but do not do according to their deeds, for they say but they do not practice what they say."
In principle we are in a similar position dealing with the GB and their unscriptural rules and traditions are we not? So Jesus guidance fits the bill.
We do what we can to comply as did the disciples and where they go beyond Jehovah's regulations we obey God as ruler rather than men until correction is made by Jesus (head of the congregation).
If we are expelled from the Synagogue (congregation) for standing firm, so be it.
Personally I no longer feel that it's my responsibility to warn any JWs about the GB deviations. We are all personally responsible to stay alert and keep on the watch. This would be especially true in regards to corruption from within. I really think Jehovah is allowing this to take place as a test of personal loyalty. This is why we are not having much success "waking up" brothers. Their own conscience has to recognize the wrongdoing and nudge them to action.
i completely agree with you. and just to expound a bit on what you aptly commented on above: the only difference that i see between the Pharisees of Jesus’s day and the Gov Body of today is the draconian shunning policy (expulsion- as you mentioned) that allows today’s leadership to not just expel a man, not just treat a man as if he were dead, but treat a man as if he never existed.
I often compare this policy to the sword of Damocles, suspended over every JWs head, by a single strand of Stephen Lett’s gray hair.
It’s the elephant in room, it’s the policing policy that every JW lives with that prevents him from cultivating deep bonds with others- for fear of revealing something about his authentic self that is in conflict with the Gov Body’s thinking.
I mean let’s face it, it’s impossible to have your thinking 100% aligned with a body of men who arbitrarily change doctrines and policies for the sole purpose to indemnify the organization. Yet that is what the Gov Body demands of all JWs. correct me if i’m wrong.
Everyone is aware of the harshness of this policy and so there is a threshold or boundary in which every woke JW must predetermine that he will not violate for the sake of avoiding disfellowship.
Does that make sense?
I’m open for correction on all things. I don’t know much at all about the way the Pharisees controlled ordinary Jews back then.