Yes, of course I agree. I also agree that half of Adam was not in a sinful state, as you bring out, it would be best to say half of his marriage arrangement was. I'll explain why I said that later in this post, but thank you for highlighting that.
My argument is not about Adam making a wrong choice, we already know that he did, and we certainly know that presenting his situation to Jehovah is the obvious right choice. It's a given. What I am examining, is the
why he didn't make it, and that the perspective of blaming God as the WT teaches is incorrect.
I am trying to understand the situation from a perspective that Adam & Eve were made in the image of God, and that we must
try to look at his reason for choosing his wife over Jehovah through the lens of love. Again, I'm not trying to say he didn't make the wrong decision, but rather trying to look at it from
his perspective of why he didn't. There is a difference in establishing what he did, with why he did it. My basic statements are that we have been looking at this scenario from the perspective that the WT has narrated to us, and that their theory does not take into account several important factors that are part of the reason Adam chose to do what he did.
It is my theory that his answer to Jehovah, when asked if he had eaten from the tree, does actually present a clearer picture as to
why he did what he did. In fact I think it answers both, the what and the why in one short sentence. Of course the what is easy, he ate the fruit. The why on the other hand is not so simple, and that is what I am presenting.
“. . .And the man went on to say: “The woman whom you gave
to be with me, she gave me [fruit] from the tree and so I ate.””
Ge 3:12
It is possible that this one sentence clearly identifies why he did it. I do feel like there is some blame here, more towards Eve than God, however I also feel that Adam is presenting to God what his thoughts were just prior to eating the fruit. When we try to empathize with what he was going through, his perfect thought process was obviously confounded by his perfect physical attachment to the most precious thing in his life, Eve. If only he had gone to Jehovah first is the correct answer, but he didn't, why?
Ultimately, we could end this discussion here, for the obvious reason that he chose to eat the fruit was that he loved Eve more than he loved God. I cannot however believe that he didn't love God, and this also is a reason why we must try to understand why he did what he did.
“. . .But each one is tried by being drawn out and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then the desire, when it has become fertile, gives birth to sin; in turn, sin, when it has been accomplished, brings forth death.” Jas 1:14-15
It is clear, by Adams response to Jehovah, that he
desired to be with his wife, even though he knew it would cost him his life, he loved her so much that he was willing to die with her.
As I stated earlier, I find it interesting that just prior to the account of the sin in the Garden of Eden, Jehovah provided us with this information:
“24 That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he must stick to his wife and they must become one flesh. 25 And both of them continued to be naked, the man and his wife, and yet they did not become ashamed.” Ge 2:24-25
Was it the purpose of God to put this verse just prior to Adams choice, to help us in determining why Adam did what he did? That his decision to stick to his wife over Jehovah, was not in itself based on one of hate, but one of love, not for himself, but for her? A decision motivated by his perfect bond of union with his wife?
Again, I'm not trying to justify Adams wrong decision, but merely understand it. Obviously he made the wrong choice and paid the price for it. Can we however, as imperfect individuals, even begin to understand the power that a perfect bond of union had between two perfect individuals? No we cannot.
Consider that on this forum, we have actually tried to comprehend what it will be like in the future if we aren't to wear clothes anymore after we have been made perfect again. Honestly, to me that is beyond crazy to actually even consider people will be walking around naked. This in itself highlights our inability to truly understand the degree of power to which perfection has on our thought process.
How then can we truly understand the power of sticking to ones wife, which was within a perfect bond? Certainly
the degree to which we cannot comprehend being naked and not being ashamed, we must examine their perfect bond of union as something much greater than we ourselves can understand.
The scriptures again provide us with the same verses found in Genesis regarding sticking to ones wife. When we consider the choice by Adam to sin, and compare it to these words by Paul, it helps
“. . .In this way husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, 29 for no man ever hated his own flesh; but he feeds and cherishes it, as the Christ also does the congregation, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave [his] father and [his] mother and he will stick to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This sacred secret is great. Now I am speaking with respect to Christ and the congregation. 33 Nevertheless, also, let each one of YOU individually so love his wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband.” Eph 5:28-33
As a perfect man, how do you now love your wife as yourself if she is now imperfect? They were one flesh. [This was why I stated in the earlier post that once Eve had sinned, half of Adam was already in a sinful state, basing it on the fact that they were one flesh. Just wanted to clarify.]
I suppose in the end, I am hoping to see Adam & Eve again, even though the events that followed are tragic indeed, I think its important that we place the proper weight of culpability of what happened on the right person, that being Satan. Had Satan not sinned, it is most likely that Adam & Eve would have continued to exist just as all the other creation had prior to them for eons of time, perfectly, of that I have no doubt. It was only until sin was introduced into creation that the thought to sin manifested itself within others to the point of actually committing it. Although Adam & Eve made the wrong choice, their choices were not motivated by hate, greed, envy, jealousy, the desire to be worshipped, etc...etc. Whereas those are very reasons Satan did what he did. Adam & Eve paid the price for their decision, just as Satan will, but when we look at this account through a different lens, I believe it does provide some insight regarding Adams decision to stick to his wife.
The Sacred Secret, mentioned in the above verses by Paul, was the solution that God created, so that when sin manifested itself he would already have the means to fix it. Perhaps this is why Paul used that verse just prior to mentioning the sacred secret. Surely Adam & Eve will fall under that arrangement. Gods creation was no longer perfect from the moment Satan lied to Eve, thus the solution to sin, the sacred secret, must cover or fix anything from that point onward. Being that Adam & Eve fell within the arrangement of the sacred secret, then they too will have the potential to benefit from Jesus Christs sacrifice.